Posts in Wellness
Renowned Beverly Hills Manners Expert Lisa Gaché Shares 7 Ways Minding Your Manners Makes A Positive Difference

Free at last, but not so fast! After being cooped up for what felt like forever, we could not wait to start socializing again. Then, just as soon as we started settling into the groove, the numbers sky-rocketed and we were told to rein it back in. There's no doubt, we're experiencing an impossibly confusing, anxiety-ridden, stress-inducing time in our history, but we don't have to let it get the best of us. Let’s not succumb to a potentially short fuse and instead borrow a page from the City of Beverly Hills’ summer slogan reminding us that, “Being Kind is Always in Season.” Wouldn’t it be nice if we all adopted this motto and acted with grace throughout our communities, our cities, and our world-at-large? While the future may be uncertain, we will persevere if we remember our manners - those wonderful social cues that keep us connected and our relationships in good stead. Whether at home or out and about, here are seven surefire ways minding your manners makes a positive difference during Corona and beyond.

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Still Safe At Home….With Man’s Best Friend At the Movies August 2020, Vol. I, No. 5 By Stephanie Mardesich

August 26 is “National Dog Day” that celebrates “man’s best friend” from mixed breed to pedigreed pooches, so it’s timely to recall some famous dogs from the silver screen featured prominently or as “hero” of the story, from courageous Rin Tin Tin , loyal Lassie, charming “Asta” of the popular “Thin Man” series, and many more fanciful K9 characters.

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PROCRASTINATION WAITS FOR NO ONE (or PUT OFF PROCRASTINATION) By SHELLEY STOCKWELL-NICHOLAS

Do you think of reasons not to do what you say you need to do? Do you belong to a procrastinator’s support group… that never meets? If so, how can you get into gear?

People ask; “Shelley how did you write 24 books?” I feel like a deer in the headlights… because I too am amazed. “How did I do it? After all, I’m naturally a slacker… so laid back that I could easily be like Ferdinand the bull who spends his days sniffing flowers and sleeping under a tree.”

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SLEEP? WHAT’S THAT? BY SHELLEY STOCKWELL-NICHOLAS, PhD

(Excerpt from Shelley’s book “The MYSTERIES OF YOU.” )

Fruit flies do it. Fish do it. Dogs, cats, and lions do it. YOU do too– and you’re so attached to doing it that you spend a quarter of your life doing it because if you don’t– you die. SLEEP! BEAUTIFUL SLEEP.

But why? Why do you suspend voluntary functions to lie supine in an unconscious state? To relax muscles? Rev-up your brain? Restore energy? To learn? Make memories

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BELIEVE IT… OR NOT BY SHELLEY STOCKWELL-NICHOLAS, PhD

Beliefs are things you accept as true.

I was startled when someone told me, “I’d rather be right then liked.”

“Wow,” I thought, “I’d rather be liked then right.” Then I realized we’re both true believers embracing and reinforcing our spin on an idea and our spin determines the outcome. Americans collectively believe the doctrine “Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness.” Perhaps being right, and not liked, is key to their happiness. Who’s to say? THEY ARE!

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